We know it’s hard, when you really like someone, to pull back instead of rushing forward with everything you feel in your heart.But if your man is withdrawing because he’s feeling rushed, then you have to let things calm down and create the opportunity for the relationship to develop at a pace that feels good for both of you. But after a while and as soon as you start developing stronger feelings for him he withdraws.
And when you start acting with him on the back of your mind, that’s when he subconsciously feels that there is something wrong; that you are not as fun anymore; that you are not as easy-going anymore; and that it is not as enjoyable for him to be around you any longer!
(And keep in mind, playing hard-to-get is a tried and true strategy that’s been effective for centuries! Or maybe the idea of commitment simply petrifies him.
) 3) He’s afraid This third reason a man withdraws is likely the most hopeful one for you. The good news is that whatever fear is motivating your significant other to pull away from you, it can often be overcome.
Have you ever asked yourself, why can’t I have THIS GUY I WANT?
The reason men leave women is because when you start to care about a man so much that it hurts, you can’t help it, but develop certain feelings and emotions that begin to drive him away! If you are not sure whether you are acting insecure with the man you really like, ask yourself, does my behavior change when I start to like a guy too much?