It is full time men learn how to tell their mothers, sisters and female cousins to respect their partners even if they do not like them.Friends who are still bachelors must learn to respect their male friends who are in a relationship.We complain that the issues we face in Jamaica stem from a breakdown in family life. Maybe if we fixed our relationships,we could fix Jamaica. Some women are of the opinion that these men really want a woman to supplement their lives economically. Additionally a Jamaican man will take the “independent woman’s” money and “mine” some woman who cannot help him. You just do not want your friends to know you like it or do it but the women say that is okay, they will keep the secret for you. They are just socialized to see it as indignifying. She means she would like to at least go to a social setting where you can have a few drinks and talk, get to know each other. These men nowadays do not want to date anymore, when they call and ask for you to meet with them, they would like to know straight off the bat if “you ago run some”. If she can afford to she will buy her man anything to make his life convenient so that he can be at his best.He will take your car and go out with women who cannot buy gas to put in it. Moreover do not tell a woman to do it and then refuse to return the favour. Some will find some way to postpone the date if they do not hear what they want to. Women say they would like to go on date therefore when a man is ‘looking’ a woman, please prepare for at least one date. There is no greater joy than when the one you love is happy and stress free.A lot of men will insist that an in-law who they do not like does not come around his house and yet his family visits whenever they want to and are sometimes disrespectful to their partners.A man will demand that his wife does not maintain friendships with women of questionable character and yet he keeps his promiscuous male friends and goes out with them on a regular basis. Quote :“The idea that sex is something a woman gives a man, and she loses something when she does that, which again for me is nonsense.The gist is that a woman can still feel sexually satisfied without an orgasm.
Wherever you are in the world, learning about another person’s culture is a great way to break barriers and Jamaica is no different.
Women adore men who are willing to help out in the home, spend time with children, assist with homework and watch television with their partner. What men call “nagging” is a woman’s way of showing she cares about you or that she is concerned .
She is not trying to upset you, she merely needs reassurance.
It is funny that they should think that list was crappy when it should well explain the reason why we have this many single parent homes with females as head of household. A woman can only call your name on the ” Jacket” if you went there without your socks and boots. When a woman is willing to spend her hard earned money on you, it is not because she is a fool.
Something is wrong with the way our men see relationships. Jamaican women know that when a man says he wants an independent woman, he does not really mean he wants a woman who can complement his financial position. When a Jamaican woman says she wants to go on a date. It is because she loves you and wants you to be happy.